Testimonials

Workshops:

“Thank you, Fern, for the training received.  You’re right – it’s never too late to receive tips and training – they apply in all relationships.  If we only knew back then what we know now!  Your delivery was fun, humorous and informative.” — G.B., New Jersey

“When you brought to my attention that my child may just be telling me about her day – she may just need to vent.  I took that to heart and have been following this simple rule – listen – and just confirm that I hear what she has said. I have tried not to give advice or to judge.  Almost immediately I have seen a difference – she seems more at ease with me and with herself.” — SP, New Jersey

“Fern walks you through steps to become a better listener, which helps not only with your kids, but also in all your relationships.  Her common-sense approach and gentle way of challenging you to think differently stay with you beyond the class. Fern’s is often that voice in your head that says, ‘Listen, THINK, then respond’ when you find yourself in a difficult conversation.” — Carol F., New Jersey

“I found the seminar to be an eye-opening experience on how to handle my 13-year old. I am always doubting my son and not giving him the benefit of the doubt. I learned to listen to my son instead of yelling before I hear him out. I also learned how to handle a negative situation and that it is ok if my son makes mistakes.  Hopefully he will learn from them. I also have a tendency to nurture his every need and the seminar taught me to sit back somewhat and let my son figure out his own obstacles in life.  I would highly recommend taking a course with Fern. She is wonderful! “ — Darlene B., New Jersey

“Being a single mom of 22- and 16-year old girls and a 12-year-old boy, I have used her tools often. Less is definitely more when it comes to talking to my kids. Fern’s occasional reminder that it’s okay to make mistakes and start over really resonates with me. Because I’m using her tools, I’m creating amazing relationships with my kids – relationships that I had only hoped for – and feel really confident as a parent. It definitely takes a village. Thank you, Fern.” — LY, Minnesota

“Great workshop!  I wish every parent was required to have a presentation of this type before taking their babies home from the hospital!” — CD, School Nurse, New Jersey

Coaching:

“I was looking for a way to bring character and integrity back into my parenting after long years of divorce struggles.  Working with Fern helped me build a foundation on which to explore the most difficult feelings and experiences a parent can have, and rebuild around principles and integrity.  My life will never be the same.” — BD, New Jersey

“Fern’s wise, calm and encouraging approach provides me ballast every day.  In tough parenting situations, her words and advice come back to me.  My awareness and responses are shifting in powerful ways.  I practice better listening, and more acceptance and empathy.  I stay calm and say less, and what I say is much less reactive and much more purposeful.  It’s like having an invisible partner in my household!” — SM, Maryland

“Fern helped my new husband and I sort out how to co-parent my 19- and 20-year old daughters when they came home on breaks and extended visits.  She helped us clarify our goals and set a plan for us to work together and make the house run smoothly.  I was amazed at how well things go at our family meetings, and in our family.  Fern has an easygoing way about her that made my husband very comfortable with her guidance.  I highly recommend her as a coach.” — NC, New Jersey

“I learned to take a breath and stop being confrontational; to be supportive without controlling; to let my high schooler be responsible for his grades and to decide what kind of student he wanted to be.  It was hard to do, but ultimately improved our relationship and helped us communicate better.  Fern’s process is excellent, focusing on both sides of the relationship, providing you with strategies to support your child.  Her willingness to share her own difficult experiences validates her coaching.  She’s been there and survived.  If you need help, don’t wait. Call her now!” — LM, New Jersey