It’s never too late to establish guidelines around technology, but the earlier you do it, the better. Today’s tip covers multiple aspects about introducing younger kids to technology and social media. If your kids are older, the genie is already out of the bottle; however, you can revisit the rules already in place, or create/co-create rules if you have none. Depending upon how your summer is going and what activities your kids are, or aren’t doing, this can be just what you need to redirect your kids… and maybe you, too.
The virtual, digital world is your kids’ reality. It’s the only world they know. You can’t control it all; however, when you hand over this technology, you need to be clear about the ground rules. Here are some ways to set the expectations:
1) Start talking about it when they are very young, before you hand then the iPad or smart phone.
2) Model careful and limited use.
3) Remind them to limit screen usage. You can’t ban it, but you can redirect them. They were born into a digital world and needed to be reminded there is another world out there.
4) Motivate them to exercise and get more physical activity. The more time they spend watching a screen, the higher the risk of weight gain.
5) Encourage activities that invite socializing or other activities that involve other kids. Guide them to volunteering, hobbies and learning something new… live and in-person.
6) Ask them about the sites they visit, and you visit them, too. Learn what’s on them, and who’s on them.
7) Establish rules about privacy and not sharing passwords.
8) Set time and place limits for cell phones.
9) Create screen rules together.